Your Sexual Health

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Your sexual health isn’t just about satisfying, safe sex. It also encompasses your relationships, your physical health, your self-confidence and your peace of mind. Discover what sexual health means and five actions steps to help get you there.

What is Sexual Health?
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A Healthier Body
  • Protect your health and your partners’ health
  • Avoid STIs and HIB
  • Prevent cancers caused by STIs
  • Good sexual functioning and performance
  • Overall health and well-being
  • Have planned and healthy pregnancies when wanted
  • Protect your ability to have children (your fertility)
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A satisfying sex life
  • That is right for you and your partners
  • That is pleasurable
  • That is based on your personal values, desires, and boundaries
  • Includes your choice to be sexually active or not
  • Allows you to explore and feel comfortable in your choices
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Positive relationships
  • Based on open and honest communication
  • Respectful, pleasurable, comfortable and safe
  • Free of fear, pressure or violence
  • Where you experience love, intimacy, and affection
  • Balanced and fair
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Feeling good about yourself and having peace of mind
  • Be in control of your sexual choices
  • Feel confident
  • Be comfortable with yourself, body and sexual identity
  • Feel positive about practicing safer sex, including use of condoms and/or contraceptives
  • Reduce stress, worry and regrets related to sex/sexual health

Overall Benefits of Good Sexual Health

Value who you are and decide what’s right for you

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  • Value yourself—what’s on the inside and outside, including your body ad sexual identity.
  • Think about what you want—define your personal values, desires and boundaries. These might change over time.
  • Understand what you want before you get involved with someone.
  • Recognize that we are all sexual beings; it’s a natural part of life.
  • Know that sex can bring you pleasure, intimacy and joy.
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Benefits

  • Be in control of your sexual choices.
  • Feel comfortable with yourself, your body, and your sexual identity.
  • Feel confident.
  • Have peace of mind, and reduce stress, worry, or regrets..
  • Have a sex life that’s right for you and your partners
  • Enjoy a pleasurable sex life.
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Treat your partners well and expect them to treat you well

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  • Be with someone who makes you feel good about yourself, comfortable, and safe.
  • Partners should respect your boundaries and not pressure you.
  • Partners should care about your health and well-being.
  • Partners should make you happy.
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Benefits

  • Have relationships based on open and honest communication.
  • Have relationships that are respectful, pleasurable, comfortable, and safe.
  • Experience love, intimacy, and affection.
  • Be free of fear, pressure or violence in relationships.
  • Have relationships that are balanced and fair.
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Build positive relationships

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  • Respect your partner and make decisions together.
  • Have open and honest conversations about your relationship, desires, and sexual health.
  • If your partner is violent, pressures, or tries to control you, seek help.
  • Value yourself, and what’s right for you.
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Benefits

  • Have relationships based on open and honest communication.
  • Have relationships that are respectful, pleasurable, comfortable, and safe.
  • Experience love, intimacy, and affection.
  • Be free of fear, pressure or violence in relationships.
  • Have relationships that are balanced and fair.
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Get smart about your body and protect it

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  • Learn about your body and how it works (anatomy, sexual expression, pleasure and safer sex).
  • Choose if and when you want to be sexually active.
  • Practice safer sex to prevent STIs and unplanned pregnancies.
  • Plan ahead and be prepared with condoms and/or other contraceptives.
  • Take steps to protect yourself and your partners.
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Benefits

  • Prevent HIV and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
  • Reduce risk of male and female cancers related to STIs (cervical, anal, throat, and penile).
  • Maintain healthy sexual functioning/performance.
  • Enjoy good health and well-being.
  • Feel positive about practicing safer-sex.
  • Have planned and healthy pregnancies, when wanted.
  • Protect your ability to have children (your fertility).
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Make sexual health part of your healthcare routine

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Benefits

  • With vaccines, protect yourself from STIs, such as HPV and Hepatitis.
  • With screening, detect STIs and get treated early. Help avoid serious problems from developing.
  • Get advice on the best contraceptive options for you.
  • Improve sexual functioning/performance.
  • Have planned and healthy pregnancies.
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Make sexual health part of your health care routine. Ask a provider about the following sexual health services.

  • HPV Vaccination (men and women up to age 45)
  • Chlamydia screening annually (women up to age 25)
  • Highly-reliable birth control options
    • Hormonal IUD
    • Non-hormonal (copper) IUD
    • Nexplanon sub-dermal hormonal implant
  • Emergency Contraception – Plan B
  • Periodic pap test (women age 21 and older)
  • HIV test every year for men who have sex with men
  • HIV PrEP: pre-exposure prophylaxis
  • HIV PEP: post-exposure prophylaxis

If you or someone you know is in crisis, contact the Military Crisis Line at 988 and press 1, or Text 838255. You can also call 911.